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Momologues
Sixty-two self-identifying mothers responded to 18 text prompts. Read them here.
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Momma Held it Down
Grief has been an old friend to me. Since I was a young girl I’ve lost many friends and family member to an array of deaths dealings;...
Jul 7, 2022
Avoid bearing children at all costs
On July 4th, 2022 my husband and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. Twenty-five years ago, I was focused on finishing up a work...
Jul 6, 2022
I owned that choice
I was 23 when I had an abortion. I was a senior in college and getting ready to study and travel abroad for my final semester. I was...
Jul 6, 2022
Too Poor
I had been engaged for about 6 months. I had been feeling ill for several weeks, and when I missed a second period (because who on...
Jul 2, 2022
I squatted, reached inside and...
We were interrupted unexpectedly and he bolted out the back door so no one would know. The phone rings. On the other end was him. He said...
Jun 29, 2022
I was terrified, alone and ashamed.
It was 1969. A few months earlier a man I was on a date with had forcibly raped me. Now I was in Australia at a college friends sheep...
Jun 29, 2022
I wanted that baby so much
I had a complete hysterectomy that removed my uterus and a baby with a healthily beating heart the night before Roe v Wade was...
Jun 28, 2022
Two different choices can evoke the same emotions
"I never had to grapple with a decision that would change my life one way or the other. When I found myself pregnant in a toxic ...
Jun 27, 2022
Because it was the right thing for me
This photo is from a time when my then-husband was out fishing and I was, simply put, not okay. My body was broken in many ways after a...
Jun 26, 2022
My body felt different immediately
Storytelling is my love-language and you'd think that I'd be able to be loud and proud over this, but as you know, or can imagine, it's...
Jun 26, 2022
I was drugged
I was drugged and raped in college. If I hadn't miscarried I would have aborted. To this day I don't even talk about it with my husband...
Jun 26, 2022
My healthcare team saved me.
My husband and I really wanted a baby. We were in our mid thirties. We’d been trying for a year. I got pregnant. We were ecstatic. I...
Jun 25, 2022
I never asked
A different twist. My mom had two abortions when I was a teenager. Granted, she was seventeen when I was born...three months into being...
Jun 25, 2022
I was depending on my IUD to work
I had just graduated college. 22 years old. Left my boyfriend. Had a fling. Learned I was pregnant. Not sure which guy. Fresh out of...
Jun 25, 2022
I thought, “I can’t work through another pregnancy”
When I was 32, after having my two daughters and numerous failed pregnancies, I had an abortion. My husband and I knew that we were done...
Jun 25, 2022
I fell pregnant again 7 months later
I was only 23, just started my first “big girl” job. I was engaged, but my fiancé was involved in an unpaid apprenticeship. My god we...
Jun 25, 2022
I'm so thankful for Planned Parenthood
I am so thankful for Planned Parenthood; I think I am the first generation of women who could get contraception, without parental...
Jun 24, 2022
Neither of Us Felt Ready
We accidentally got pregnant right after getting engaged. Neither of us felt mentally, emotionally or financially ready to have a baby....
Jun 24, 2022
Pro-life v. Pro-control
I am a privileged white woman. I am happily married and have three healthy sons. My husband has had a vasectomy and we do not want any...
Jun 24, 2022
I Have Never Told Anyone About This
I had an abortion after my divorce. I slept with just about anyone I could because I felt empty. My daughter was gone to her dads most...
Jun 24, 2022
He wanted to get me pregnant without my consent
My first abortion was at 24 when I was living in Oregon. I found out at about eight weeks. I had no money, a gig job and lived across the...
Jun 24, 2022
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